Faith's Receiving

You may have thought about the difference between giving and grabbing. Easy to think about. They are exact opposites. It’s not hard to think about which category of person with whom you would rather share a table. You may have heard a discussion on the difference between love and lust. Actions may look alike, but the motivations are very different. Perhaps even more subtle is the difference between receiving and reaching. It is the difference between trusting the promise of God while waiting for the fulfillment of that promise, in God’s timing, in God’s way; or, on the other hand, the very human tendency to reach out and try to make happen what you want to have happen. The difference is illustrated in the Old Testament of the Bible, in the lives of Abraham and his nephew, Lot.

The promise of God had come to Abraham, repeatedly, over a period of time, in which God said, “I will …, I will …, I will … Many times, the “I will …” is followed by the word “give.” Other times, the “I will …” is followed by “make you” into something that you presently are not. One of these things was a “great nation.” But Abraham wasn’t even a father. From the first promise, Abraham would wait 25 years until he received a son by his wife, Sarah. But receive a son, he did, named Isaac. He didn’t reach for him. He received him.

Lot was invited to choose a land to inherit away from Abraham. “If you go this way, I’ll go that way, or the other way around. Lot, you choose.” And so Lot lifted his eyes, and reached for what looked best. His eyes could see the natural prospects of the land, but his eyes were blind to the spiritual peril. And that’s so often what happens when we reach rather than receive. Only God knows what’s best. Our short-sighted vision is incapable of making the best decisions.

Oh, it’s not as though Abraham lived by faith flawlessly. There were times when he reached; when he wearied of ever receiving. He went and had a son, Ishmael, by Sarah’s handmaid, who was not the son of promise, and who brought much discord into the whole story. He twice placed his wife in danger in acts of self-preservation - not good for a future father. He laughed in his heart at the incongruity of God’s insistence that the promise would yet be fulfilled. But however imperfectly, Abraham believed. He waited. He received. He did not have to reach. Neither do you.